Speed Dating just got better.

Our events are designed to feel simple, laid back and low-pressure.

There's no host, reserved seating, or obvious signs of an 'event'.

Instead, show up and follow personalized text instructions from your remote Luvvly host.

You’ll meet 6-8 dates over 2 hours. You’ll have about 10 minutes with each date and the chance to ‘match’ discreetly when it’s all over! We’ll connect you with your matches within 24 hours.

We’ve got more details, useful tips, Luvvly etiquette and ground rules laid out for you below.

For our full F.A.Q., head back to your city page.

How This Works

  • We'll set you up on a series of mini dates.

    Each event is limited to 8 dates, this allows for you to meet a good mix of people while having enough time per date to move beyond small talk.

  • Remember the pre-dating app days where if you wanted to ask someone out, you had to actually approach and talk to them?

    Our events are kinda like that…

  • We'll text you each date's name and description (they have yours too).

    Fun part: You get to get to find each other!

  • We'll nudge conversations in the right direction with fun text prompts throughout each date to help spark laughter, stories, and genuine connections.

  • At the end of the event we'll send you a form where you can discreetly (M) Match on your connections.

    If both you and your date indicate a match, we'll connect you after the event.

What’s the schedule?

  • The morning of your event, your remote host will shoot you a text introducing themself and confirming your attendance.

  • Once you’re at the venue, check-in by texting back with a short physical descriptor of what you’re wearing. This will be what other daters use to find you. Tip: try to make your descriptor clear and detailed so you’re easy to remember when it’s time to match!

  • Order something off the menu and find a cozy spot to settle in and wait for all your dates to arrive.

  • Once all participants have checked in, we’ll send the first “Find Your Date” text with each first date’s name and physical descriptor.

  • At the end of your round we’ll shoot you a text to let you know your date is over, and your next dates name and descriptor. Time to rotate! Tip: “react” to our texts or take notes on your phone to help you remember who you enjoyed connecting with after each date.

  • Repeat until you’ve met all your dates! (Events that have over 6 dates will have a ten minute intermission halfway through for you to grab another drink, use the the restroom or catch your breath).

Etiquette & Ground Rules:

To ensure everyone has a fun time meeting new people, we have a ‘Luvvly Etiquette’ that we expect all participants to abide by. Let’s practice kindness and make sure everyone has a fun time today!

  • Do not share or ask for personal information; no unsolicited advances whatsoever. Contact informations is shared by Luvvly representatives post event ONLY.

  • No harassment, discrimination, or offensive behavior.

  • Know your limits and drink responsibly, overly intoxicated daters will not be able to participate.

  • Be kind and empathetic.

While being a text run event company, Luvvly is not an app, meaning each event is run by a human host who is available throughout the entire duration of the event, and is there to support you in this experience. If at any point in the event you feel uncomfortable, you can always text your event host for assistance. If there’s someone specific making you feel uncomfortable we can implement a break round so you can avoid meeting them. In case of emergency we can also reach out to venue staff for additional support if needed.

We take participants safety and comfort very seriously, anyone reported of violating these guidelines will be investigated and potentially permanently banned.

Most Importantly

Have fun! These events are organized to help you meet and connect with singles in your city in a real and authentic way. In our experience, there’s two ways to attend these events.

1) skeptical and safe.

2) open and easygoing.

The second is how you succeed. Challenge yourself to really try and connect with each date. Whether you match or not, our prompts are meant to ensure you can enjoy fun new connections at each event regardless of the outcome.

Dating is a simple numbers game- the more people you meet, the higher your chances of finding your match. Remember, its not about finding just anyone, but the right one. Keep putting yourself out there, you never know who’s waiting to meet you.

Looking forward to hosting you soon!