low-pressure sapphic
speed dating
weekly events where intentional singles meet for love and community
a better way to meet new singles
more of what our community is saying
we believe datings best done face-to-face, where you can see, hear, and feel the chemistry
IRL connections
no lengthy bios, hours wasted swiping, or algorithms to impress; meet queer women face-to-face where real chemistry is obvious in minutes
finding love is a numbers game
luvvly stacks the odds in your favor, designed to fit easily into your regular routine with many monthly events and thoughtful touches like a repeat-date tracker behind the scenes
a healthier dating routine
meeting people in-person builds confidence, sharpens your dating intuition, and makes dating feel hopeful and connected again
✨ luvvly has sparked dozens of relationships, engagements, a handful of marriages, and plenty of friendships ✨
P.S. that’s just the folks who came back to tell us, so the real numbers are certainly higher.
how luvvly works
low-pressure, easy, and genuinely fun
There's no in-person host, formalities, reserved seating, or signs of an 'event'.
Instead, we guide you through a fun yet structured experience (inspired by speed dating) all from your phone.
You’ll have each persons photo, name + a short descriptor of what they look like (they’ll have yours too!) which you’ll use to find each other in a flirty scavenger hunt throughout the evening.
Enjoy 6-9 mini first dates in under 2 hours, with about 10 minutes per person and the chance to continue the convo outside of the event by ‘matching’ at the end ♥️
A safer way to date IRL.
All events are hosted at queer friendly, partnered public venues.
Every event has a dedicated remote Luvvly Wingperson who checks in via text during the experience and provides live, real-time SMS support.
There’s always a room full of other singles navigating the same experience, feeling the same nerves, and looking out for each other along the way.
We uphold strict community ground rules on first date etiquette that protect everyone’s comfort and safety while meeting new people.
meet sapphic singles looking for something real 💛
Queer spaces are amazing at building community and friendships.
We love those spaces, but sometimes it’s hard to know who’s there looking for romance vs who’s just there socially.
Luvvly is intentionally designed for dating.
No wondering if someone is actually single or interested in dating, everyone in the room with you shows up with the same shared mindset and purpose.
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Spots sell out quick. We highly recommend joining to get first notice for new events!
Ready to try a better way to date?
getting started is easy:
Tap book my spot to see our upcoming events, and use the filters to select queer women to see our upcoming sapphic events (we host other orientations too!)
Pick an event with an age bracket you’re looking for (we host sapphic events from mid 20’s to mid 60’s). Register to lock in your spot or join the waitlist if it’s sold out.
Keep coming until you find your person! Many of our daters attend regularly to increase their chances at finding love, all while making new friends in the process.
