low-pressure sapphic
speed dating
weekly events where intentional singles meet for love and community
a better way to meet new singles
we believe datings best done face-to-face, where you can see, hear, and feel the chemistry
meet sapphic singles looking for
something real 💛
Queer spaces are amazing at building community and friendships.
We love those spaces, but sometimes it’s hard to know who’s there looking for romance vs who’s just there socially.
Luvvly is intentionally designed for dating.
No wondering if someone is actually single or interested in dating, everyone in the room with you shows up with the same shared mindset and purpose.
✨ luvvly has sparked dozens of relationships, engagements, a handful of marriages, and plenty of friendships ✨
P.S. that’s just the folks who came back to tell us, so the real numbers are certainly higher.
how it works
low-pressure, easy, and genuinely fun
There's no in-person host, formalities, reserved seating, or signs of an 'event'.
Instead, we guide you through a fun yet structured experience (inspired by speed dating) all from your phone.
You’ll have each persons name + a short descriptor of what they look like (they’ll have yours too!) which you’ll use to find each other in a flirty scavenger hunt throughout the evening.
Enjoy 6-9 first dates in under 2 hours, with about 10 minutes per date and the chance to ‘match’ at the end ♥️
A safer way to date IRL.
All events are hosted at queer friendly, partnered public venues.
Every event has a dedicated remote Luvvly Wingperson who checks in via text during the experience and provides live, real-time SMS support.
There’s always a room full of other singles navigating the same experience, feeling the same nerves, and looking out for each other along the way.
We uphold strict community ground rules on first date etiquette that protect everyone’s comfort and safety while meeting new people.
date people, not profiles
IRL queer connections
no lengthy bios, hours wasted swiping, or algorithms to impress; meet queer women face-to-face where real chemistry is obvious in minutes
finding love is a numbers game
luvvly stacks the odds in your favor, designed to fit easily into your regular routine with many monthly events and thoughtful touches like a repeat-date tracker behind the scenes
a healthier dating routine
meeting people in-person builds confidence, sharpens your dating intuition, and makes dating feel hopeful and connected again
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Spots sell out quick. We highly recommend joining to get first notice for new events!
Ready to try a better way to date?
getting started is easy:
Tap book my spot to see our upcoming events, and use the filters to select queer women to see our upcoming sapphic events (we host other orientations too!)
Pick an event with an age bracket you’re looking for (we host sapphic events from mid 20’s to mid 60’s). Register to lock in your spot or join the waitlist if it’s sold out.
Keep coming until you find your person! Many of our daters attend regularly to increase their chances at finding love, all while making new friends in the process.
FAQ
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We offer a range of solutions designed to meet your needs—whether you're just getting started or scaling something bigger. Everything is tailored to help you move forward with clarity and confidence.
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Getting started is simple. Reach out through our contact form or schedule a call—we’ll walk you through the next steps and answer any questions along the way.
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We combine a thoughtful, human-centered approach with clear communication and reliable results. It’s not just what we do—it’s how we do it that sets us apart.
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You can reach us anytime via our contact page or email. We aim to respond quickly—usually within one business day.
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We offer flexible pricing based on project type and complexity. After an initial conversation, we’ll provide a transparent quote with no hidden costs.
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Collaborative, honest, and straightforward. We're here to guide the process, bring ideas to the table, and keep things moving.
meet people, not profiles
IRL queer connections
meet queer women face-to-face where real chemistry is obvious in minutes
show up as yourself
no lengthy bios, hours wasted swiping, or algorithms to impress- just skip straight to the fun part
intentional dating
a queer space where everyone showed up for the same reason: to meet someone romantically